When we think about patients who have trouble regulating strong emotions, it often begins with a genetic predisposition toward higher emotional sensitivity. These individuals experience emotions more intensely than the average person. Their feelings are easily triggered by seemingly minor stressors, and it takes them a long time to return to baseline after experiencing these emotions.
These patients frequently encounter more stressors than the average person, creating a cycle where they experience strong emotions, face excessive stressors, and struggle to re-regulate. This combination makes life particularly challenging for these individuals, who typically lack the tools to cope with their intense emotions effectively.
To exacerbate the situation, these patients often live in invalidating environments. They are surrounded by people who don’t understand how distressing it can be to live this way, leading to the development of maladaptive coping strategies. Family and friends may perceive them as “overly emotional or irrational,” dismissing the severity of their emotional states. As a result, behaviors such as self-injury, drug use, eating disorders, and suicidal tendencies can emerge.
Support from family and friends is often only provided once these maladaptive behaviors have escalated, inadvertently reinforcing these behaviors as useful coping mechanisms. By understanding the underlying genetic and environmental factors contributing to affective dysregulation, we can better support these patients and help them develop healthier ways to manage their emotions.
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